You Aren't Stuck

Uncategorized Sep 16, 2019

Are you obsessing over what you are supposed to do and who you are supposed to be during your time here on earth? 

If so, I congratulate you, because you are asking yourself some hard questions. But what if I told you you were asking yourself the wrong question? 

The  concept that there is only one right answer seems totally overwhelming and is no doubt leaving you stuck and panicked about choosing the wrong one. All the while time is passing by. 

What if there was no one right answer, but a handful and you didn’t have to choose the path for the rest of your life, but just what you want to do next. 

Doesn’t that feel so much lighter? 

Usually the next question I get is… how? 

And I’m so glad you asked! When we release ourselves from the pressure of the one right thing that has kind of paralyzed our decision making we can start to think of possibilities. 

Let’s get us some choices shall we. Choices that are not limited by judgement and we tend to choose better when we have a couple of choices. 

Default Future: What you’re doing now. I’ve talked about this before but this is your default future. If nothing much changes and you just keep going down the same path for the next five years. Maybe you’ll get a promotion, maybe you’ll start a family, but all in all life looks the same.

When I was in corporate this looked like becoming a manager in the next five years and potentially an international assignment to live overseas for a couple of years. 

Created Future #1: If you absolutely could not do the thing you are doing anymore. Let’s say you get laid off or the product that you manufacture or sell no longer exists. What is the first thing that pops into your mind as something that you’d like to do?

My created future option number one was to start an online business doing masterminds, strategy and hot seats.

Hot seats are where someone comes to the group with a problem and they are asked a series of questions and then the group ideates potential solutions. I love hot seats and have a knack for them according to some people I have done hot seats with. It is an activity where I am in total flow state and leave these sessions with more energy than when they began. 

Created Future #2: Your third option is the wild alternative, if money were no issue, you wouldn’t be judged and you could do anything within the next five years.

Mine was to host retreats all over the world, take small groups of women entrepreneurs and incubate their ideas in glorious places helping women own their power and build lives that they loved and therefore impact the world on a grander scale.  

I am creating a combination of options one and two that is my Created Future #3 that fit beautifully together and I am totally in love with my life. 

Building out retreats, leading group programs to help women package their expertise into kickass offers and coaching women 1:1 who want to make a bigger impact in the world doing what they feel called to do. 

I’d love to know what you come up with and if you need help generating these three for yourself book one of my corporate to called transition calls and let’s map this out for you.


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